So here I am, Day Number Two and I don't know what to write... Forgive me if this is just waffle. I have a 15 month old daughter who is running me ragged at the minute and who definitely rules the roost! I'm knackered just now. I'm knackered just trying to knacker her out so I can have a few precious hours to myself in the evening!
I took her to our local 'Bumps and Babies' group today to say hi we're still alive and all that jazz (I haven't been in months on account of the fact my daughter is built like a tank and would flatten the poor newborns there if she tumbled in the wrong direction. To be honest, she's just too old and I've no 'bump' so really have no need to go there anymore.) We also had a birthday gift for one of the kids who turned one last week but seeing as this kid is also too old to be at Bumps and Babies it was only a 50/50 chance whether we'd catch them. We didn't. So I just faffed about there awkwardly with my baby tank running amok around several small and alarmingly delicate looking babies. In between polite chat and restraining my hyper daughter I was asked by one of the 'new' mums when she could expect her little one to start sleeping through the night.
HA.
My gut response was, "Do I look like I've frickin' slept in a year and a half?"
My actual response was something between a chuckle and a sigh. Then I admitted that my daughter did not sleep through the night.
Intakes of breath and some sympathetic noises. One girl asked if my daughter had a dummy or some other comforter when she went in to her cot.
My gut response was, "Yeah, my boob."
My actual response was the admission that I co-sleep.
Some surprised noises. Encouraged by these I blundered on to admit that I still breastfeed her too.
Silence.
There's nothing quite so uplifting as knowing you have the sisterhood to support you in all the parenting choices you make as a mother.
*sigh*
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